Suppose you’re all set for a Kai Siao Date. A friend or maybe a parent introduced the both of you to meet-up. But, are you sure you’re ready for it? Well, don’t fret because we got you covered! Here’s a Chinoy’s guide to preparing for a Kai Siao Date!
1) DO A LITTLE RESEARCH
It may sound ungentlemanly, but a little digging can help. If you’re a bit of a worrier, researching can help you figure out how well-connected you are with the person. People tend to feel closer to someone when they know more about their lives. With research, you can easily determine similar interests to help keep the conversation going.
2) SHOW UP ON TIME
The whole point of a first date is to make a good impression. Believe it or not, it’s a great strategy for bonus points! It will make you look well-prepared and thoughtful. Being the gentleman, you are, planning the date, and being early to make necessary arrangements can make things run smoothly.
3) KEEP THE CONVERSATION GOING
If you want to impress a date, be responsive, be enthusiastic. It can sound incredibly corny but to keep the conversation going is to just be yourself. Genuine people make excellent dates and come off as open-minded and approachable. Avoid those “one-question, one-answer” topics. For conversation starters, you talk about mutual friends or even Chinoy interests!
4) KEEP IN TOUCH – *BONUS LAND A SECOND DATE
Last but not the least, if you think your date went well, then you should keep in touch. Don’t rush to ask for another date. Build a connection. If your instincts tell you that she’s interested. Then, take the opportunity to ask for a second date. You’ll never know that she might just be that long-time partner you’re searching for.
